A  study has found that most people who make New Year's resolutions fail  to keep them within one week of starting. Now tips have been offered to  help them reach their goals. 
Professor Wiseman, author  of ''59 Seconds: Think A Little, Change A Lot'', insists we can all  achieve our goals by making some quick, simple changes 
And the top 10 tips to help us see our resolutions through are: 
1. One thing at a time: 
Many of us make the mistake of trying to achieve too much instead of  deciding on what is important to us and making just one resolution. 
The chance of  success is greater when we channel our energy into changing a single aspect of our behaviour at a time. 
2. Plot your success: 
Find a way of charting your achievements. Keep a journal, or cover your fridge or notice board with graphs or pictures. 
3. Try something new: 
Repeating resolutions you have failed to keep before is a recipe for  disappointment. Set a new goal, or approach an old aim in a new way. For  example, instead of trying to lose a set amount of weight, vow to  exercise more. 
4. Be specific: 
Think about exactly what you are going to do, where and when. Vague  plans fail. For example, instead of saying that you will go running on  two days each week, decide you will run on Tuesdays and Thursdays  straight after work. 
5. Set S.M.A.R.T goals: 
Make sure your goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic  and Time-based (SMART). For example, instead of simply saying you want  to find a new job, come up with bite-sized goals for each week, such as  rewriting your CV then applying for a job each week. 
Map out small steps that will slowly but surely take you to where you want to be, write them down and stick to the plan. 
6. Carrot, not stick: 
Motivate yourself by focusing on the positive, rather than beating  yourself up about your failings. Think how much better life will be for  you, and those around you, when you achieve your aims. 
7. Go public: 
Many of us prefer to keep our New Year's resolutions to ourselves.  Unfortunately, this makes it all too easy to simply forget about them.  Instead, go public. Write down your resolution on a large sheet of  paper, sign it, and place it somewhere prominent in your home. 
Tell your friends, family and workmates and ask them to support you. For  example, if you want to lose weight, ask colleagues not to offer you  biscuits with your tea. 
8. Be persistent: 
New habits take time to learn, and once in a while you will slip up and  revert to the old you. Most of us give in to temptation occasionally,  whether it is a cream cake or a crafty cigarette. 
9. Get image conscious: 
Visualise yourself doing whatever you need to do to achieve your  resolution. Focusing on this image will help you believe in your ability  to succeed. 
10. Be positive: 
You will get better results from thinking about the good things that  will come from your new lifestyle rather than the negative aspects of  your old habits. 
Regards
B M S
 
 
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